跨文化交际-Unit-3市公开课一等奖省赛课微课金奖课件.pptx

Textmasterformate durch Klicken bearbeiten,Zweite Ebene,Dritte Ebene,Vierte Ebene,Fnfte Ebene,Klicken Sie,um das Titelformat zu bearbeiten,Page,*,Unit 3 Daily Verbal Communication(),Textmasterformate durch Klicken bearbeiten,Zweite Ebene,Dritte Ebene,Vierte Ebene,Fnfte Ebene,Klicken Sie,um das Titelformat zu bearbeiten,Unit 3,Daily Verbal Communication(),Compliments,gratitude&apology,Practical Course for Intercultural Communication,1/35,Every tale can be told in a different way.Greek ProverbBy nature people are nearly alike;by practice they get to be wide apart.Confucius,性相近，习相远。,2/35,Case 1 An Invitation to Dinner,While not particularly religious themselves they still felt that their children might benefit from belonging to a church.(P41,para1,l.2),A sense of belonging,Moral&ethical guidance,Sunday school,education,Sunday school noun,a class held on Sundays to teach children about Christianity,主日学校，星期日学校（在周日对儿童进行基督教教育学校）,3/35,Sunday school,Case 1 An Invitation to Dinner,4/35,First Communion,The,First Communion,or,First Holy Communion,is a Catholic Church ceremony.It is the,colloquial name,for a persons first reception of the Sacrament of the,Holy Eucharist,(,圣餐,),the body and blood of Jesus Christ.,Catholics believe this event to be very important,as the Eucharist is one of the central focuses of the Catholic Church.,Case 1 An Invitation to Dinner,5/35,This is a once-in-a-life-time gathering for my daughter.How can you choose over a regular party?,Case 1 An Invitation to Dinner,6/35,Discussion:How would you mediate their strained relationship if you were the director?,Case 1 An Invitation to Dinner,7/35,Comments:,1.difference in the ways in which they prepare for a dinner,Filipinos prepare more food than enough and wouldnt mind if there were leftovers.,Americans prepare food according to the number of guests.,Case 1 An Invitation to Dinner,8/35,2.different concept about the first communion,Friends gathering religious celebration,Case 1 An Invitation to Dinner,9/35,Case 2 The Cancellation of the Dinner Party,How could you embarrass me as my friend?,10/35,Which do you think is the true reason about Joses cancellation of the dinner party?,Case 2 The Cancellation of the Dinner Party,11/35,Case 2 The Cancellation of the Dinner Party,In the Philippines,a person cannot be a friend and a critic at the same time,or at least not in public.,In New Zealand,a friend can openly provide constructive criticism,Solution:Stan should voice his comments in private(particularly to southeastern Asians),12/35,Case 3 Why should they do like this?,Hello?Im still here?-_-b,Besides,you are really loud,13/35,Case 4 The Embarrassment Caused by“No Etiquette”,No Seeing Out When Guest Leaves,No offense,but we Canadians do not see the guests out when they are leaving,14/35,Case 4 The Embarrassment Caused by“No Etiquette”,No Stand-up When Your Leader Comes In,You dont have to offer me seat unless you are going out.,Chinese are accustomed to respecting all those in authority,15/35,Case 4 The Embarrassment Caused by“No Etiquette”,I dont need your help Do you think Im old and useless?,In the west,there is no need to help old people unless they ask for help.,16/35,Compliments and Compliment Responses,17/35,Compliments and Compliment Responses,Example 1,Its exquisite!The colors are so beautiful!,Its just an ordinary dress,Appropriate response:-Thank you/I am flattered/Its a gift from my boyfriend.,Implication:The American womans taste in clothing was questionable.,18/35,Compliments and Compliment Responses,Example 2,Mr.Chen is an outstanding physicist and one of the nicest people I know.,Should I blush,or should I tell him you dont really mean it?,Appropriate response:,Nice to meet you,Implication:The hostess was not sincere.,19/35,Compliments and Compliment Responses,Fishing for compliments?,Growing flower is my hobby,but Im not much good at it.,I really know little about the subject.,20/35,Getting over embarrassment,4.,Expressing thanks,3.,Greeting people,2.,Reinforce solidarity,1.,Social Functions of Compliments,Other functions:Encouraging people,Softening criticism,Starting a conversation,21/35,Differences Between Chinese and English Compliments,Example 1,You look terrific tonight,Mary.,Flatter will get you nowhere,Mr.Jackson.,_,Flirtation?Or just subtle relationship?,22/35,Example 2,Differences Between Chinese and English Compliments,You love it?,Take it please!,I love your scarf!,Its really pretty!,Thanks.,Generosity is a fine quality that Chinese cherish.(P52),23/35,Differences Between Chinese and English Compliments,The Semantic Formula,English compliments contain one of a highly restricted set of,adjectives,and,verbs,.(P52)This was a,great,meal.I,like,your haircut.,In Chinese,positive words expressing compliments are mainly,adjectives,adverbs,and,verbs,.(P53),你裙子很,漂亮,。你干得,不错,。你该,受,表彰。,24/35,Differences Between Chinese and English Compliments,The Semantic Formula,English compliments often begin with the pronoun“I”.,I,like,your haircut.,I,love,your glasses.,I,really,enjoyed,your class.,Chinese compliments often begin with the pronouns“you”or“your”.,你,裙子很,漂亮,。,你,干得,不错,。,你,该,受,表彰。,25/35,Differences Between Chinese and English Compliments,The Syntactic Formula,English compliments,NP is/looks really ADJ,e.g.Your shoes are gorgeous!,I really like/love NP,e.g.I really like your paintings.,PRO is really(intensifier)a ADJ NP,e.g.Thats really a beautiful garden.,26/35,Differences Between Chinese and English Compliments,The Syntactic Formula,Chinese compliments,You V ADV,e.g.,你干得不错。,NP(You)is(intensifier)ADJ,e.g.,你外套真漂亮。,PRO is ADJ NP,e.g.,那真是一幅不错挂历。,PRO(You)V(deserve)O,e.g.,你值得称赞。,I like NP,e.g.,我喜欢这张画。,27/35,Common Response Formulas of English and Chinese Compliments,才花了我十元。,大家努力结果。,还差得远哩。,Responses in American English,Im glad you like it.,Thank you/Thanks.,Responses in Chinese,Native English speakers tend to accept the compliments,at least in form,Chinese tend to efface themselves in words,although they do feel comfortable about the compliments.(P55),28/35,-You look terrific today!,-Oh,well,tomorrow Ill just go back to being myself.,-You did beautiful job.,-Oh,well,it had to happen sometime.,Exceptions:,Native English speakers also use self-effacing responses to compliments.,29/35,-You look terrific today!,-Yes,its the new me!/Of course,what did you expect!,Exceptions:,When a Chinese is in an exceedingly good mood or being with the most intimate friends,he or she may say(P56),30/35,Cultural Assumption,Compliments?Or bad news?,Youve gained weight.,Youve lost weight.,Many Americans are conscious about weight,whereas many Chinese consider rosy cheeks a sign of good health.In Chinese,losing weight may mean that someone has become sick without noticing.(P56),31/35,Expressions of Gratitude and apology in English and Chinese,For minor favors,such polite expressions are often neglected by Chinese,especially among close friends and members of the family,Chinese,Westerners sometimes take the Chinese attitude that appreciation is understood and need not to be expressed for rudeness or lack of sincerity.(P57),Native English speakers,32/35,Expressions of Gratitude and apology in English and Chinese,没关系,不要紧,It doesnt matter.,Never mind.(response only to apology in English),They could be response to man Chinese expressions of gratitude as well as apology.,33/35,Thank You!,34/35,Assignment,1.Exercises in Unit 3,2.Preview Unit 4,35/35,